First, I would entertain her and make her feel
more calm. After she feel more calmly, I will start to asking what was really
happened and what problem she had that made her so sad. After knowing that she
planned to kill her self because of her pregnancy and her parents so mad
to her, I would give her advice that she was like that because of what she did.
"You have a God who always there when you were happy and sad, pray to Him and apologize
for what you did and ask him protection for you.
Baby was so pure, helpless and
don’t know anything, if you killed your self, your babies will die too. Death and
life is a god secret. Let the baby born into the world, because that’s your
obligation as a mother.
Your family, friends and all closed people will feel
sad for your loss. You’re still young and will die in vain. You have long
future, so never think to end your life.
Your parents get mad because they feel
sad, disappointed and failed to protect their girl. They mad because they loves
you. They think, how is your future later after this situation. Apologize to
your parents and tell them that you so sorry. Because what you did have made
them disappointed. And also tell them you will responsible for what has
happened, requesting permission to them to keep support you whatever will
happen. So your parents will forgiven you and keep support you everytime,
because parents always loves their child.
If you do it all, I'm sure your
problem will resolved soon. And I'm as your best friend will always pray for you
and keep supporting you in a joy and sorrow. Because That’s a friend are supposed to be."
Yohanna Septania MD
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